HOW TO MAKE THE BEST OUT OF FRIENDSHIP

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Absolutely, friendship is great and it is one of the beautiful things we enjoy in this word.
But friendship makes more sense when you have the right person as your friend.
Friendship becomes so great when you achieve a purpose together. Friendship becomes more appreciating when you have the same mind.
At this point, let me say “not everyone can be your friend”.
I believe the number one prerequisite for choosing a friend is “one mind”.
Make friends with people who desires success like you. people who shares same passion and vision with you.
The friends you make determines how far you can go in life, because friends directly or indirectly influence our lives.
On making friend, make strategic friends, friends that can influence your life positively. Friends that you can do great things together.
On number of friends, how many friends you are keeping has nothing to do with how successful you can be, but how valuable and impactful they are goes a long way to determine how fulfilled will you will be.
Don’t make mistake of keeping the wrong friends. Those who keep wrong friends will surely pay for it.

Exercise:
Write down the names of your friends. At the front of each name, write the impact(s) they have in your life. Whatever it is, then ask yourself if those impact can help you fulfill your life purpose and vision or not. Make a classification of the positive impacts and the negative impacts. Then decide who will continue to be your friend.
On making new friend, watch out for people who are already treading the part you want to follow, people who you know are focus, discipline and committed to the course of their goals. There you go!


Never live today to regret tomorrow – Make the right friend.

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